I put out a message to my Facebook friends soliciting stories of how prayer has impacted their lives. The first to respond was Win. I was quite surprised. Below is the story he shared.
I’m not a Person of Faith – I follow the teachings of Jesus without believing in his divinity. I may have spent many pre-adult years in the Presbyterian Church, but not all of it stuck.
Not long after we became an “established” couple, Susan had a ruptured disc, which eventually required surgery. I was with her at the hospital, and while I was there, she received a visit from the Assoc. Pastor of her church. It was a good visit, very pastoral and comforting, and when he took her hand and said “Let us pray,” I stood silently by. As you’d expect, he prayed for comfort and healing… and he gave thanks that I was there to be with her.
I think you could have knocked me over with a feather. Nobody had ever given thanks to their god for my presence, ever. I was both lifted and humbled, a truly astonishing and eye-opening experience. I’m still an infidel, but that was one of the most moving experiences of my life… along with seeing Susan’s pain-free smile after successful surgery.
P.S. A couple of years later, that pastor officiated at Susan’s and my wedding.
Not long after I read Win’s story, I traveled with members of our church and other churches to Harlan, KY for our annual mission trip. I asked our mission workers to ask everyone if they would like to be prayed for. One man said, “But not everybody is a believer.”
I thought of Win and said, “What difference does that make?’


November 12, 2011 at 5:15 pm
Can’t help but think of the many ways I am an infidel myself, and the amazing nature of grace that never seems to stop and calculate my worthiness. Here’s to infidels and grace’s continual rise above us.
November 12, 2011 at 5:46 pm
Well said, Todd. Of course you are an infidel. Welcome to the club!
November 14, 2011 at 12:33 pm
Like the song says, “Amazing grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me.”
November 15, 2011 at 6:47 pm
I hadn’t ever thought of this as an evangelical thing before, but in hospitals I always give thanks for the people in our lives who are with us when we are in need. Having read Win’s story I am encouraged to never not share this same gratitude in prayer. thanks for sharing Paul.